as a part of psychological training routine, to make her strong, no-nonsense special forces style techniques 🙂 if you wish.. A few times she came up to me in tears and complained that someone “hurt her
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feelings”. And she’s a strong girl, she does karate (orange belt), getting punched etc.. Of course I was sad but I laughed at her face and said people will always do it, let’s resist! Let’s apply karate principle and train to accept psychological punches. So since then, from time to time I suddenly come up to her and tell stuff like that: You are ugly, stupid and weak.. And pathetic.. And let’s discuss your teeth, skin and hair.. And.. list goes on. She is trained to listen and not to take it personally. After that she has to say something like “thank you for your opinion, but sorry I’m busy I have to go..” Than she smiles and leaves. We do it several times. I pretend to be someone different each time. Needless to say I apply same techniques on myself:-) However, several times a day I tell her that she’s the most beautiful girl in the world and can get what she wants if concentrate on it.. 😉 What do you think?